God created man and a woman to be one in holy matrimony

God created man and a woman to be one in holy matrimony

God gave man the breath of life (genesis 2:7 ) and God created woman (genesis 2:18-25), Did God create more than one women to be with Adam?

So that was the beginning of mankind as claimed and declared by God. Unless, anyone can claim in any other written source apart from God, so we believe that God tells us that Adam and Eve were the first married couple in the Garden Eden to start the tough journey on earth.  So literally, God conducted the “first marriage” with great spiritual meaning of two persons become one flesh. Did God really physically conducted the “marriage”?  Didn’t God leave it to them to perform the first and ever sexual encounter and technically that is “marriage”?

 Later, we are told God's definition of marriage can be found in Genesis 2:24: "Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.

At the time of Adam and Eve, God is the Father and they did become one.  So marriage can be like the chicken and egg scenario as which come first?  Did God issue them a marriage certificate?  Did God really need to issue them a marriage certificate ?  So really marriage was the physical sexual act as consummated and not the issue of marriage certificate.

When was the first marriage certificate issued on earth as good governance of the family laws? Yes it is good to have marriage certificate for all legal context.  But marriage could have taken place much earlier as we learn of illegitimate child as marriage can also mean when a man and woman becomes one. Rapist is a separate issue as the intention was evil.

Many couples do feel guilty with premature sexual act prior to the issue of wedding or marriage certificate when the genuine expression of love in sex of both virgin partners could be the only genuine reality in the human race.  So what does a piece of paper really matter when a child is born of “wedlock” within 9 months of the piece of certificate that make gossip unbearable for the genuine couple.

I hope with this letter many may rethink of marriage and wedding in a certificate as it is only a piece of paper and avoid any child out of that “wedlock” as illegitimate one. 

What is most important is that one man and a woman become one and that the guilt is removed as the couple stay faithful forever in pure love between them without any other affairs. What the world perceive “marriage” is really out of context when a piece of paper dictates love and life in a pure union.

While it is good governance but who are the other people including any authority except God to stipulate the term “marriage” as the real father is ever more paramount important in life as the feature of the face can be like the father. When that happen, who can dispute the true earthly father?  God makes man in His image.

After touching so much on marriage, it can also “mar-rage” (illicit sex addiction) where sexual perversion and polygamy or polyandry prevail and which I have seen in a vision of dragon or drag-on. In stories, a Chinese dragon can be composed of many different animal parts, but it’s more commonly depicted as having: the tail of a fish, the scales of a carp, the neck of a snake, the belly of a clam, the head of a camel, the claws of an eagle, the paws of a tiger, the ears of a cow, the eyes of a demon, the beard of a goat and the horns of a stag. Quite the beast, huh? (source #ninchanese) So drag-on in any marriage can be a “beast”.

I wonder if anyone has seen a real dragon which is really a myth of creature of many parts of other animals pieced together to give an image.

Dragon can also give the similarities of a perverted marriage or mar-rage where more than one sexual partners come into play in a marriage life.

We may not be aware or conscious of all the ills in child bearing/births and disabilities in the off springs which can be largely attributable to sexual perversion. So nothing can be good if “drag-on” in any marriage life with adverse consequences known or unknown.

Marriage is not of any religion and it is independent of that and that we take guidelines from God.  It is also said that marriage is made in heaven.

Marriage with certificate or without is indeed sacred between the two partners and who else can determine the surname of the first child?

Joshua Y C Kong  27/11/2018